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How to Build Confidence Without Waiting for Permission

By Logan Reed 3 min read
  • # confidence
  • # personal growth
  • # self-improvement
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Ever find yourself stuck in the waiting room of life, twiddling your thumbs until someone deems you worthy of confidence? Newsflash: Building confidence doesn’t require a permission slip from anyone but yourself. Ready to take the plunge into a world where you are your own biggest fan? You’re in the right place!

Recognize and Evaluate Your Inner Critics

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Picture this: you’re about to make a bold move, but then – BAM! – your inner voice chimes in with an Oscar-worthy performance of doubt. We all have this little critic perched on our shoulders. Recognizing this negative self-talk is the first step in turning down its volume.

  • Identify: Start by keeping a ‘critics journal.’ Note when these thoughts arise and in what scenarios.
  • Challenge: Ask yourself if these thoughts are facts or just gloomy opinions.
  • Replace: Swap out negative chatter with positive affirmations. If that’s too cheesy for you, go with realistic statements that focus on your strengths.

“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” – Malcolm S. Forbes

Embrace Failure as a Friend

Here’s a truth bomb: failure is one of the best teachers. If you’re afraid to fail, you’re missing out on the messy, sometimes hilarious, always valuable lessons it offers. Just think of failure as the quirky friend who can teach you all the bad dances at the party of life.

  • Reframe Failure: Change your lens. Instead of ‘I failed,’ say ‘I learned.’ This subtle shift makes it easier to bounce back and try again.
  • Share Your Stories: Talk about your failures with friends or colleagues. You’ll be surprised how many ‘Oh, me too!’ responses you’ll spark!

Set Small, Achievable Goals

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is confidence. Break down your bigger aspirations into smaller, manageable goals, and celebrate each victory.

  • Be Specific: Don’t just say ‘get healthier.’ Specify ‘take a 30-minute walk every day.’
  • Track Progress: There’s a unique thrill in crossing things off a list, so keep a checklist handy to boost your motivation.
  • Celebrate Wins: Reward yourself! Whether it’s a tub of your favorite ice cream or a new book, make sure you acknowledge your hard work.

Surround Yourself with Positivity

You know the saying, ‘You are the company you keep’? It’s frighteningly true! Surrounding yourself with positive vibes can significantly boost your confidence.

  • Find Your Tribe: Engage with people who uplift and encourage you. If you can sip coffee with them while discussing how awesome you both are, even better!
  • Curate Your Feed: Follow inspirational accounts on social media. Unfollow or mute any voices that don’t align with your newfound positive outlook.

Get Comfortable with the Uncomfortable

The comfort zone: it’s cozy but not very exciting, right? Challenge yourself to step outside of it, even if just a little at a time.

  • Start Small: Begin by trying something new each week, like taking a different route to work or learning a new skill online.
  • Reflect: After each experience, note how you felt. Often, discomfort is quickly replaced by the pride of accomplishment.

Seize the Day!

The journey to building confidence is an ongoing adventure, filled with twists, turns, and plenty of aha moments. Remember, confidence is like a muscle: the more you work it out, the stronger it gets. So stop waiting for a permission slip that might never come and start today!

Take the challenge: This week, try one new activity that pushes you out of your comfort zone. Share your experiences with others and validate your progress.

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